Often when we get married or have been in a relationship a while, dating sort of gets forgotten. Budget constraints when saving for or paying off a house, or when kids come along, can make it quite difficult to afford dating. It doesn’t have to be that way.
Here are 52 free or cheap date ideas, so you can have one each week! (Crystal's Note: I've put a star next to all of the activities that Mr. BFS and I have done together and liked.)
1.) Have a candlelit dinner at home. Dress the table nicely, use your best dinner ware, all the nice things you have been saving for special occasions and enjoy each other’s company.
2.) Watch a movie at home. You can download movies for cheap, hit a Redbox for $1.50, or drop by the library.*
In a hurry here are some suggestions:
3.) Go to an outdoor market. These can be really interesting and often have street performers to watch as well.
4.) Have a picnic somewhere with a nice view.*
5.) Go for a walk together – a bushwalk, hike or along the beach are all nice.*
6.) Teach each other. If you can play an instrument, start a blog, surf, create a website for your hobbies or job, or do something the other one wants to learn, teach them.*
7.) Play at a park. Go to one with a big merry go round, swing on swings and go down slides. Have fun like when you were kids.
8.) Go to an art gallery or museum. Many of them are free and have amazing exhibits.*
9.) Attend a book or poetry reading together.
10.) Movies in the park. Some areas over summer have free movies in the park you can go watch together.
11.) Volunteer together to be models at a beauty or hair school. You get pampered at the same time for free or very cheap.
12.) Visit a farmers market together. Often you can sample produce and you get to buy fresh, tasty food.
13.) Play cards or board games (or Wii/Xbox/Playstation).***
14.) Go to the snow if you live near it. You can make snow men, toboggan and have snow ball fights.
15.) Have a fire and make smores.
16.) Star gazing. Look up constellations or go to a local observatory.*
17.) Create a treasure or scavenger hunt to go on.
18.) Roller skating or ice skating rinks are often reasonably priced.*
19.) Mini golf (aka Putt-Putt).*
20.) Theme nights – Pick a theme such as Mexican, eat Mexican food and watch a movie such as The Mexican.
21.) Go fishing together, then cook your catch.
22.) Make your own pizza night – have a variety of toppings and create your own pizza masterpieces.*
23.) Sunrise breakfast or sunset dinner.*
24.) Go for a bike ride together.
25.) Have a mystery date. Place some selections in envelopes and pick them at random.
26.) Hire a kayak or paddleboat.
27.) Play spotlight – go to some bush/forest area with torches. Let your eyes adjust to the light then look for animals. If you see one, flash a torch on it and it’s spotlighted.
28.) Do a dance class – many offer first class free so you can try it together.
29.) Play darts or pool together.*
30.) Go to your local pool or hot tubs.*
31.) Go to a second hand market.
32.) Go fruit picking.
33.) Take a drive with no specific destination, just stop somewhere you like. Or flip a coin – heads is right, tails is left. Do it 10 or 20 times then stop for a picnic or drink at a cafe.
34.) Go to the target range.
35.) Attend a dress rehearsal of a theatre production or go to a school production. They are much cheaper than the full evening productions.*
36.) Go see a local band perform.
37.) Attend amateur mike night at your local comedy club.
38.) Visit a factory such as a chocolate one. You usually get samples or can buy at a discount.
39.) Do a ghost tour. You don’t need to pay for one. Research your area a little and go check out the places that are haunted.
40.) Go rock climbing.
41.) Create art together. Get out some paint and paint an abstract picture together.***
42.) Go see a local game of football or other sport. *
43.) Pretend to be tourists in your own town. See what is on offer for free and do it.
44.) Have a photo session either set up the camera at home or take it with you somewhere nice to take pictures of each other and you as a couple.*
45.) Go to open homes and discuss your dream home.
46.) Volunteer at a soup kitchen or homeless shelter together.
47.) Take a dog for a walk. If you don’t have one, walk a friend’s dog. (From Crystal: My husband and I sometimes walk dogs together in our pet sitting business – we actually make money and get to catch up with each other)*
48.) Learn another language together. You can get programs from the library then practice with each other.
49.) Do puzzles.*
50.) If you have a GPS, take up Geocaching. People hide little objects for others to find and put in the coordinates. It is worldwide so you can do it anywhere.
51.) Have fondue.
52.) Feed birds or ducks at a lake near you.*
These are just some ideas, but if you look up free things to do in your city you might be surprised at the options.