Fairly soon, we'll be heading on our third camping trip of the season. I'm a little bit nervous because we are going to the same campground where the big awning blowoff of 2012 took place, and I'm definitely a little skittish about returning to the scene of the crime. But, it's a great campground and I'm hoping this time is a little less adventuresome. We'll see.
I had to share a story about our last trip, which took place earlier this month. We stayed at another one of our favorite campgrounds, this being our fourth visit (two before we bought the camper, and one last year). We had a great time but what stuck out were the people on either side of me.
They both blew me away! So much so that after the trip was done, I commented to Mrs. Beagle that I was sure glad that these people hadn't been my neighbors on my first trip, for they made things look amazing easy!
On our left
The people to the left of us arrived a day or so after we did. We were out so we didn't see the setup, but we returned to our campsite to find that they were all setup, with a big camper and a boat on top of it. As the week unfolded, I was absolutely astonished. The campers consisted of a dad and his three young children (7,5, and 3). I had a conversation with him and he did reference his wife, but she wasn't there.
These kids were so well behaved you barely heard a peep out of them (the 3 year old got picked on a few times and would cry, but that was it!).
He took the kids out on the boat for the entire day multiple times, and would return to take care of dinner. The kids would sleep in (or at least stay in the camper) until past 10 in the morning.
For us, we had two adults and we only had two kids, yet it always feels a little more frantic….and there's no way I could have handled a boat on top of everything. This guy made it look easy.
On the right
Around the same time, our neighbors on the other side came in. They were a family of four, and set up rather quickly. Two of the four were teenage boys, and we were amazed that they all fit in the little pop up camper that they had.
Even more amazing was all the wood that they started unloading. Both kids and the dad were pulling wood and making a pile that kept getting bigger and bigger and bigger. It was astonishing.
And, it was good wood, too, as they soon lit some and it lit easy and crackled away.
We soon found out why they had all that wood. Because they kept their fire going all day, and cooked every meal over the fire. And, we're not talking plain old hot dogs over the fire. They made meals that I would struggle with in a full kitchen. Chicken that you could tell was just perfectly tender and seasoned to perfection. Bacon and eggs. Tacos. Fish wrapped in foil. It all smelled delicious, and it got to the point that when it was mealtime, my wife and I would both peek out the windows to see what was being served, and they never disappointed.
Again, had this been my first trip and I pulled up between them, I would have thought that camping was a cinch. At least now I know that this is definitely not the norm, at least for a novice.
It's All About Time
I talked with the people on both sides, and as I suspected, they were pretty expert campers. The people who did all the cooking said that they'd been doing it for a number of years, and they have definitely built a routine.
That hit home, because it's easy to see this type of setup and think that this should be your standard, where in reality, that's not the case. Assume that they've been camping for five years. Will we be in this position in five years?
I'd like to think we'll be a lot closer than we are now, and that others will look at us and make it look easy.
I also realized that they're good at this because they ‘going boating' or ‘cooking by the fire' as their priorities. We like doing other things like going to the beach or park or even local attractions. So, cooking is secondary, where for them, their primary focus is sitting around the fire and cooking or going on the boat. That's important to differentiate, and I'd like to think that they saw the way we pack for the beach and spend the day there, and think that we maybe made that look a little easy 🙂
It's Probably Not Always That Easy
We had great weather the week we were there, so we got to see both of these ‘experts' at their best. As my wife and I were talking about them, I pointed out that, especially for the people that cooked everything over the fire, things would have been much tougher had we had a cold, rainy week. It's probably harder (and a lot less enjoyable) to make a perfect piece of chicken if is pouring rain and you're soaking to the bone. I'd have to think that the law of averages has made this situation a reality for them a time or two.
Set Your Own Standard
Last year, when I was just getting started on the whole ‘camper' business, I got frustrated a lot more often. Now, I basically reserve my frustrations exclusively for when I'm backing the camper into the campsite, which I still have not gotten the knack for. Other than that, I've realized that we're pretty good at this…for being relative novices. I try to keep that perspective and realize that every trip means we learn more and more, and that we also find new ways to enjoy ourselves.
Wish Me Luck
As I said before, the trip we're headed toward has a great campground with amazing things to do, but I've told my wife that if I get ‘bit' again, whether it be another awning incident, a major problem with the camper, a flat tire or some other big deal, I'm going to consider the place cursed.
But, I'm sure we'll have a great time. We always do!