Keeping up with the Joneses. We’ve all heard it. We know what it means. Hopefully we don’t do it.
Keeping Up With The Joneses: Who Are Your Joneses, Anyway?
But, since most people that you start comparing yourself to probably aren’t actually named Jones (though, some might be), I wonder who your Joneses are. Meaning, who are the people that, when you see them, make you want to ‘keep up’?
For me, I don’t have actual people, but the people who fall into these groups are definitely my triggers.
People who build brand new houses
I remember when my parents went through the process of building a new home back in the late 1980’s. Although even then I knew that it was a stressful process (I remember more than story of my dad getting into near-shouting matches with the builder), it was fascinating to me to see ideas on paper and a piece of land get transformed into a home, and was something I wanted to do someday. So far, I haven’t had the opportunity, so when I see people that are going through that process, it definitely strikes a chord.
People who remodel their kitchens
I’ve never had a granite countertop in any place where I’ve lived. It’s been all laminiate counters for me. Our home has a decent enough kitchen, but it is a late-1990’s kitchen that was, even then, fitted with the basics. It’s functional but it’s nothing fancy. Although we’ve replaced the sinks, faucets, and dishwasher, it’s still very much a basic 1990’s kitchen. Although we have no plans to replace it, I have to admit, when I see the photos on Facebook and such of people that do a kitchen remodel, I ‘want one’!
For me, these are the big groups that bring out the most longing, even if it is fleeting (which it is). It doesn’t bring out the desire to go out and build a new house or start a new project, but more the thought process of ‘if only….’. Eventually I realize that we have a great house and, compared to many I’ve seen, our kitchen is just fine.
So, just curious, readers, who are your Joneses, and to what level does it strike you? How do you go about moving on when your trigger points bring out that feeling?